(I highly recommend the inventories developed by Dr. There are many counselors who can provide Christian singles with insights into the results found in these inventories.
The Myers-Briggs temperament sorting is another excellent source of information that each person should know about themselves and each other.) 3.
At least 4 sessions should be spent with a Christian counselor who is trained in pre-marital counseling.
It would be especially helpful to take the inventories mentioned above to the counselor for their input. It is very important that the couple receive affirmations from family and friends during this stage.
These are a wonderful means of finding out which areas you are really in “sync” and where you are apart.
It serves as a basis for building the Christian dating relationship into as healthy a one as possible BEFORE marriage.
Pushing the pace causes areas of each other’s character to not be observed.
The couple should be able to enjoy the blessings of God as well as family and friends as they move into a marriage that has been well planned and confirmed in a healthy process.I encourage you to not look for the “exception” but where you can build the type of Christian dating relationship that will serve you and your partner well for years to come.) 1.There is an attraction to each other and Christian singles immediately (or soon thereafter) think they have found their soul mate.They can be assured that they have taken the steps to assure a long and satisfying marriage.There are so many voices at play in our world today.